Apparently, not only women who are dissatisfied with his sex life, but also men. From the survey Asia Pacific Sexual Health and Overall Wellness or APSHOW in 2008, found in the fact that 57 percent of men and 64 percent of women do not feel satisfied with their sex lives. Surveys released APSHOW drug manufacturer Pfizer and conducted in 13 countries from the Asia Pacific region, including Indonesia, it sends data as many as 328 male respondents and 250 female.
Most cases that occur are usually caused by man does not have the ability to maintain penile erection sufficient for satisfactory sexual relationship, or is called erectile dysfunction. Unfortunately, only a few cases of erectile dysfunction is revealed and received proper medical treatment. Only about 13 percent of patients who had responded that information would find the right treatment.
The other most resistant because do not understand, shame, thought it was not a disease, and possibly because doctors are not ready to handle.
Severity levels in the male erectile determines the quality of sexual relationships. When a man managed to get an erection hard level to maximum, then the couple can get the optimum level of satisfaction, and the individual is able to gain a sense of intact on the other side of life.
From the research results also revealed that most of the cause of women is difficult to achieve orgasm husband factor.
Most are factors”her husband. For example, not a good erection, premature ejaculation, and inability to stimulate the wife, or lack of foreplay,”said Prof. Dr. Dr. Wimpie Pangkahila, SpAnd, FAACS, Chairman of the Association of Indonesian Seksologi and Professor of Faculty of Medicine Udayana University.
From the side of women, sexual dissatisfaction was also due to women reluctant to talk about sex with a partner so that they do not open when failing to reach orgasm.
Women”also had a share. For example he has diabetes, hormonal disorders during coming months, or due to testosterone and estrogen levels that regulate vital tool in the body susceptible to interference,”said Wimpie.
One thing that is not less important is the atmosphere or environmental factors. For example, women”are not related because the mood for a fight out, or because there are things that have not been resolved so that he does not focus with intimate relationships,”he said.





