Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on May 16, 2010 at 9:55 pm 7 comments Each day there will be a man who will experience a prostate problems in his life. Prostate disorders usually will attack men aged under 45 years old. Prostate gland can be prevented through a lot of ways, one of which is to ejaculate regularly.
In a man’s prostate gland surrounds the urethra there. The urethra is the channel where the flow of urine from the bladder to the tip of the penis. Prostate gland is very important for the reproductive process, namely as the producer of most of the liquid that mixes with sperm to form semen.
Comments from some urologists say that the relationship between prostate cancer with those who rarely ejaculate is to produce cement, prostate requires some material from the blood as zinc, sitrik acid, and potassium and compact. To solve this problem is needed sexual relations.
A study also showed that more frequent ejaculation may reduce the risk of prostate cancer. But the bottom line instead of not only sexual relations just because a man who likes to have sex with multiple partners also get prostate cancer risk by 40 percent. But if you want to remove it, then the other alternative other than intercourse is masturbation.

Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on May 14, 2010 at 8:11 pm no comments Sex means: The most common usage, so female sexuality as women in the definition of sexual desire. How men and women, sexual desire, in fact, as described in Ayurveda and Thai folk texts of some books, health, women have more sexual pleasure than men, they are almost 4-6 times more than men the same joy involved in one way. There are many parts of the body, happiness, women than men in some areas compared.
Women play an important role in several times a night, so there are many drugs, herbal remedies and women improve their libido and enjoy a night on top of multiple orgasm. Women may be at a single time to enjoy more than men, may, therefore, need more of the female body, according to the scope of rehabilitation. Unfortunately, the product is for men to increase sexual desire and more, but the situation is changing, and now many researchers are concerned that women’s sexual libido and many pharmaceutical companies introduced their products to women.
There are many reasons to change or reduce female sexuality. All of these factors, women have a physical or mental. Whatever the reason is always, therefore, women have lost any sex they used to be crazy not interested. However, there are many normal physiological reasons, it is inevitable that every woman’s life, such as menopause, the menstrual cycle and / or sometimes even in pregnancy.
Depression is the most important causal factors that can change one female sexuality or sexual desire. Especially in the U.S., depression, anxiety and stress, so that millions of women lose interest in sex. It is estimated that about 10 million women, low sexual desire because of depression, there is one or the other way. Cold, the hypothalamus disease, hypothyroidism, conditions and loss of libido in some women, is widespread.
In many cases, sexologists and psychologists do not recognize the female libido is the perfect reason. Idiopathic cause, the psychological need you any more sexual enhancement pill or drug counseling. After mastectomy, women are often also lead to decreased sexual desire. Pituitary diseases and menstrual cycle disturbances are not uncommon, the loss may lead to female sexuality.
For this situation, including internal and external treatments, such as sexy massage therapy treatment. There are many herbs like Shatavari, Ashwagandha and Kuchala can increase libido in men and women. Sexy massage oils and sex is shown that in men and women increase sexual desire. If a woman suffering from any chronic diseases, treat them like they are within the control, especially for women to recover their interest. Explain the low sexual desire in women, and with partners involved in the treatment of this condition to play an important role in the discussions.

Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on May 2, 2010 at 2:13 am 7 comments
Sexual problems are very diverse, interference can be started from a desire that is not burning or pain during intercourse against the couple until an erection disorders. Sexual problems can be overcome by using drugs and therapies. But there is also one of the most difficult sexual problems faced are addicted.
Sex addiction is often considered not a problem for some people. But for the man and his life partner is very damaging problems. Not only damage the sufferer’s personal life, but also the social environment, family, and especially spouses patients
Some experts say sex addiction is sexual activity outside of the control. Sex addiction sufferers feel compelled to acquire and immerse themselves in sexual activities even though aware of all risks that may be encountered.
Sex can be addictive as alcohol and drugs. When Doing Activities of sex, body to release chemicals that make our bodies to be comfortable. Some people become addicted to remove these chemical compounds and becomes obsessed to get again and again and again, feeling comfortable caused.
More than 6 percent
According to conservative estimates, 3 to 6 percent of the population of people suffering from addiction to sex and 20 percent of whom are women. They come from various walks of life. However, numbers three and six percent were estimated to be too low from the actual number of sufferers.
Given the prevalent sex addiction is accompanied by feelings of shame and disgraceful, according to the site owned by Dr. Patrick Carnes, a consultant and a leading sex addiction expert, www.sexhelp.com, so sufferers often find it difficult to get help. For this reason also, the type of patient profile sex addiction is difficult to find.
Since the opening of the Internet with a variety of cheap sexual services without having to open a self-interested persons identity, experts can only know that people with sex addiction that rose sharply, without knowing their exact identity. With limited assistance services for patients, experts believe the number of people with sex addiction that will continue to rise.
Then, as if the signs of those who suffer from sex addiction? Dr Patrick Carnes suggests the existence of 10 possible signs that need to be aware of:
1. Feel that your behavior is not restrained.
2. Aware that could arise due to severe if you continue with that behavior.
3. Feeling unable to stop the behavior you even aware of the consequences.
4. Fixed hunt destructive activities and / or high-risk.
5. Continue to expect to stop or control what you do and act actively to limit the dangerous activity you do.
6. Using sexual fantasies as a way to cope with difficult feelings or situations.
7. Need sex constantly to keep it felt good.
8. Suffered from the feelings that keep swirling around sexual activity.
9. Spending a lot of time to plan, do, or regret and do more sexual activity.
10. Ignoring the social activities, the activities office, and recreational activities are important for sex.
Need to recognize
If you see any one of the signs listed above in your behavior, the most important steps that can be done is to admit that sexual addiction is a real problem and can not go away or goes away by itself. You must choose one’s attitude personally responsible for the recovery of the interference, which could be you’re experiencing.
Generally, people with sexual disorders had found it difficult to change their own behavior. However, at least little by little you should be able to minimize the behavior as depicted on the signs in the coming cycle although sometimes the urge to do anything too strong to be resisted. A professional therapist can help you to understand what really happened and take steps to push you to lifestyle changes toward a healthier sexual.
Conversely, if you suspect that your spouse is a patient addicted to sex, you should have helped to change the behavior. Mental attitude you need to prepare yourself is, nobody will recover from addiction except to accept that they suffer from a disorder and want to change. Because of that, help strengthen your resolve couples who are addicted to getting stronger willingness to make changes.
It’s messy, painful, and confusing a couple who are addicted to sex. If in Western society, even the available help for those who have a spouse sex addict. Assistance could be in the form of personal and companion groups (support groups). Well, although not yet available here such service, you can search for photography-photography insights, such as the Sex Addicts Anonymous, an international site provides information on assistance from the UK in www.saa-recovery.org or at the British Association of Sexual and Relationship therapists, who offer a personal sex therapist directory at: www.basrt.org.uk.
The form of addiction and consequences
Sex addiction can show a variety of forms, but generally recognizable from the behavior that feels out of control. These behaviors include:
- Spend plenty of time to enjoy pornographic products
- Masturbation uncontrolled
- Ekshibisionisme
- Voyeurism
- Fetishes
- High-risk Sex
- Prostitution
- Phone sex and sex via the Internet
- Infidelity
- Having sex with a new partner, then known
According to Dr Carrie, the survey revealed a result of the behavior of sex addiction, among others:
70 percent suffered severe interference with life partner
40 percent loss of spouse
27 percent of lost opportunities in your career
40 percent experienced an unwanted pregnancy
72 percent obsessed suicidal
17 percent attempted suicide
68 percent exposed to sexually transmitted diseases.
Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on April 30, 2010 at 9:35 pm 8 comments
All parts of the female body is identical with man’s desire for beauty and inviting. You can challenge your partner this evening to copulate with sex appeal that you have.
While every woman’s curves so tempting, in fact men tend to be less enthusiastic. Really?
Time rolled on, and now look at the actress man who shamelessly showing her sex appeal. Justin Timberlake and David Beckham, for example. Even Victoria Beckham, wife of David Beckam admitted that her husband’s taut buttocks is a valuable asset for him.
Well, for you guys, instead of just praising the two celebrities such appearance, why not try to find your sex appeal? Now, it’s time you learn how to play the sex appeal.
Tips below will teach you how to be sexy man for satisfying sex couples, as reported by AskMen.
Through kissing
If possible, you can launch a kiss of death in the outdoors. Invite your partner enjoy the dim light of the moon in a comfortable place. Garden behind the house it could be an appropriate alternative.
Begin to act with your face and body closer together. Give him a sweet smile as she looked in her eyes, then say, “Your lips look very tempting.” We do that, hold her hands gently.
When kissing, do not start by licking his face blindly. Do it slowly.
When your lips only inches apart with their lips, stop kiss your lips and pull. Look at her eyes, give him a smile, and wait a few seconds. Then, kiss her lips again for a few minutes before you draw the lips again. Repeat a few times
Now, it’s time to end this game. Pull gently and give her face a hot passionate kiss. The next rounds are yours.
When intercourse
This action requires self control, but the result will be very worth it. This action alone to deny the myth that states, in the minds and the minds of all men, they only think about how to achieve climax.
Start with the hot kissing and foreplay. Then, the penetration in her vagina only approximately one or two inches in your penis, then pull back.
After a pause a few seconds, do the penetration of increasingly intense and deep, but pull it out again. Repeat several times until finally he begged you to complete this exciting game.
Filed under Healthy Sex, Women Health by Willy4987 on April 28, 2010 at 8:36 pm 5 comments
Intimacy in a pair must be created, including through massage. The technique is to be learned, provided there is motivation and a desire to give each other affection for the pair.
According to the site mypleasuretreasures.net, massage partner will not only increase the excitement. You and he can also mutually contribute to relaxation, relax muscles rigid, and of course creating a pleasurable sensation before having sex.
Before practicing the activity generating this passion, prepare a few things, such as:
* Rooms with atmosphere and the environment comfortable.
* Lighting is warm with the lights dimmed.
* Add romanticism with aromatherapy candles, for example.
* Favorite music is gentle with small volume.
If this equipment is ready, lay the body to relax. Started doing massage alternately with appropriate techniques. Try to touch on the skin couples gently as possible, but with the pressure comfortable to the body. Please note that the skin is the largest organ in the body that is surrounded by nerves are sensitive.
Touch sensitive point man, as in the area of your buttocks and inner thighs. Recognize parts of the body and the point is sensitive to your partner other. With effective communication, you can help each other to satisfy a partner.
Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on April 22, 2010 at 2:46 am no comments There is no other time when nutrition plays such an important role, as when a woman is trying to conceive or becomes pregnant. Statistics show that a healthy diet rich in nutrients and vitamins helps increase the chances of a healthy conception, as well as prevents neural tube defects that are common during the first trimester of pregnancy. During pregnancy, there are foods and herbs a woman should avoid and ones which are completely safe, and she needs be aware of these things in order to prevent miscarriage.
There are many different causes of miscarriage which can include inadequate nutrition, genetic defects, hormonal imbalance and high stress levels. Often it is not just one reason, but rather miscarriage happens due to a variety of different factors combined and doctors often say that there is nothing that can be done to prevent it. However, there are natural ways to prevent miscarriage which can help improve the odds of a woman being able to sustain a pregnancy and deliver a healthy baby.
The nutritional requirements of the female body during pregnancy are extremely high and the best way to get the right nutrient combination is to eat healthy, fresh, whole foods. Herbs and other natural supplements can be used to improve the diet, but when considering any medication a woman should first consult her physician to make sure it is safe. A woman needs fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grains, dairy products, nuts, seeds, organic animal protein, omega-3 fatty acid rich fish and other foods containing high levels of folic acid.
Things a pregnant woman should always avoid include alcohol, tobacco, refined sugars, processed foods, artificial sweeteners, rich deep fried foods, white flour and anything containing artificial colors. When considering the diet, the better a woman eats, the healthier her pregnancy and baby will be and good nutrition is one of the best ways to prevent a miscarriage. When trying to conceive, most fertility experts recommend a woman adopts a nutritious diet prior to becoming pregnant, so it is a good idea to incorporate healthy eating habits before even trying to have a baby.
Some of the natural ways to prevent miscarriage can include proper nutrition, light exercise, Bach flower remedies, herbs and vitamins, massage and stress relieving therapies. Each of these things can dramatically decrease the risk of miscarriage and should be incorporated only with the approval of a licensed medical professional. Some other things to consider when trying to naturally prevent miscarriage would also be the lifestyle and health of the male partner. If a man smokes tobacco, drinks alcohol and caffeine, it would be wise to encourage him to quit, it improves sperm quality and increases the chances of a healthy conception and allows a couple to finally conceive the baby they always have longed for.
Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on April 16, 2010 at 11:27 am 7 comments
It’s not a secret anymore that the sexual urges that can not be channeled could harm our health. Therefore masturbation is one which is considered to ease the excitement and stress.
Activities to stimulate the body at the intimate organ is actually to provide sexual satisfaction in itself and this is not dangerous. However, if this activity also has bad side effects. According to Dr. Chaves Hernano one sex consultants say that one is a man masturbating bad effects will be difficult to reach climax during sexual intercourse or ejaculation will actually accelerate.
“With masturbation, we can reach orgasm alone. In time the brain will be trained to respond to touches of his own hands and reduce the sensitivity of touch that comes from other people. As a result, it is more difficult to reach a climax,” Chavez said, quoted by the site AskMen.com
Biologically addicted to masturbation can affect the brain and the chemical substances in the body so that it can influence the sex hormone, excessive production. Nevertheless the impact on each person will differ, masturbation can cause chronic fatigue, pain in the pelvic, back pain, pain in the testes to hair loss. If used to satisfy yourself without involving other people can worry about someone going to love their own sex than their partner.
In people who are not married, masturbation is too often can lead to compulsive masturbation which can disrupt everyday life. The imbalance between personal desires and needs can lead to dizziness and want to be angry when it is not masturbation. Ultimately this will interfere with work and social relationships with others.
Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on April 9, 2010 at 11:40 pm no comments
Is your sexual relationship with your spouse is receding. Or you getting bored with the sexual relationship with your spouse. You feel bored with your partner if sexual intercourse is monotonous. Here, I’ll give you tips so that your sexual relationship with your partner to keep it warm. Some tips for your sexual relationship and your partner are as follows:
Communication
Communication is important in a relationship. You should learn to speak softly and politely to your partner. Eliminate your whole sense of disappointment and resentment releasing all is well.
Open to your spouse
You need to learn to open up to your spouse, learn to be open about your sexual partner, either while in bed or in another room. Speak to one another about things that are good. Great sexual relationship would you get if you feel close with your partner. Communicate to each other about things that must be achieved anything in your sexual relationship with your spouse. You can have sex once a week for one hour without having to focus on the achievement of orgasm.
Dare to try new things
Dare to try new things in sexual intercourse with your partner will certainly give pleasure in itself. Try to communicate your spouse about new things. Many alternatives to try new things. For example you can try sex toys to your partner. A sex toys can help improve sexual relationships become warmer. You can buy adult toys in some shops that sell adult toys or you can search for sites that sell adult toys.
Mutual respect
In order for your sexual relationship and your partner becomes warmer you should respect each other. This is very important for you to your sexual relationships become more intimate.
Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on April 4, 2010 at 3:57 am no comments 
Music can make your life more lively is no exception with your sex life. Although not much research done about the musical influences of sex, some sexologists, especially those involved in the field of therapy, sure enough, the music could affect human sexual performance. Some other experts, is more cautious, stating that only certain types of music can affect the atmosphere that evokes the mood to make love. But, obviously, some studies have found, the stimulus auditif (matters relating to the sense of hearing) is one that can evoke passion of human love. Music is like what the heck, my choices?
Loud music
If you think music can evoke passion is music softly, like a classic song or love song, you’re probably watching too many Hollywood movies. You see, music can increase sex drive just music that loud and pounding.
Tracy Erb, sexologists from the United States, declare, loudly associated with sexual desire. “The percentage of respondents who have sex after visiting a disco or rock concert bigger than the respondents who visited a concert of jazz or classical music,” he said.
This phenomenon, according to Erb, the “responsibility” of certain parts of the human auditory. In ear cavity there is a section called the sacculus, which reacts when you receive an excitatory ingar loud and deafening. Stimulation was then forwarded to the emotional centers in the brain, which translates as something fun. “Therefore, occasionally invite the couple to discotheques or rock concerts to his desire to get up,” advises Erb.
Soft music
Lee Barger, a seasoned music critic and DJ on a radio station, stating an opinion that differs slightly from Erb. “Many people who prefer soft rhythmic music as the choice of friends having sex,” says Gardner. That opinion is based on the experiences when they were broadcast after midnight. “A lot of the demand slow songs, especially the Barry White song,” he said. In addition to Barry White, there is some slow rhythmic songs that brought him a lot of other singers who are also popular.
But why the choice male singers? “The singers sounded really fall in love when it brings the songs and it can make the listener feel overwhelmed,” said Gardner. In addition, Gardner believes, the singer heard the man also has a particular effect on the couple. They can project themselves to the charm of singers who owned it.
Depending on taste
Then, a song which one should you choose? Studies in psychology who searched his relationship between music and emotion or behavior proves, musical influences also depend on the taste and safety person with the music. For example, if a song reminiscent of the experience of heartbreak, the song was actually going to make you sad. So choose the music, not music that causes trauma to yourself and your partner.
Erb added, with existing data, music alone can not be regarded as generating excitement. “Music is only one element of support that can enhance sex life,” he explained. According to Erb, the most important is a sense of psychological and physical closeness. Music can also be a means of creating a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere. A music therapist, Monty P Satiadarma, advised to listen to music instrumental music without lyrics to aka loud as the soundtrack and do not show your love.
Although music can arouse sexual desire, you need to remember, if sexual activity involving a lot of movement, try to adapt to the volume of music that makes you and your partner feel comfortable and enable you still can hear him moaning.
Songs section:
Ne-Yo: Sexy Love, R Kelly: Sex Me, Janet Jackson: That’s The Way Love Goes, Boyz II Men: I’ll Make Love to You, “Usher: Nice and Slow, Marvin Gaye: Let’s Get it On, Nelly Furtado feat. Timbaland: Promiscuos, Toni Braxton: You’re Makin ‘Me High, Taylor Swift: Fifteen, Black Eyed Peas: Pump It, Li’l Wayne: Lollipop, 50 Cent feat. Olivua: Candy Shop, Sade: By Your Side, Mariah Carey: Touch My Body.
Source : Kompas
Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on March 6, 2010 at 4:06 am no comments Are you after marriage still felt lacking in confidence to appear naked in front of your own husband? If so you have one appeared naked in front of your own husband is one to make your husband feel more excited. Grow your confidence but if you still feel worried you can try the following tips:
Change your room light fixture
Color dim or darker to give the impression that action is more sexy and you can disguise your concerns. Try to change your room light fixture with a reddish color on the wall and your room with pink paint or the like according to your taste.
Try to use makeup, “Nude”
Makeup with a more sexy eyes, cheeks flushed and lips sensual is the perfect makeup to tease your partner to be more excited.
Reduce Swelling
Sometimes on certain days to accommodate the body is quite a lot of water, which causes swelling. To try to soak it in water which contains salt for about 30 minutes. No more than 30 minutes because you can cause dehydration.
Eliminating existing wild hair on the body
The best way to wax treatment at the salon. But if you do not have time you can use a depilatory cream can be found in stores certain beauty. It is not recommended to shave the hair that is wild in the body because it tends to cause ingriown (hair growing skin blocked)
More energetic
If you do not have much time to exercise you need not fear. You can exercise at home your own light. For example bath 5 minutes before doing jump-squat while changing legs 10 times, 10 times to do push-ups.
Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on February 25, 2010 at 12:55 am no comments
Nipple one of the most sensitive areas of the human body, including man. But some women do not feel any sensation when touched or nipples do not always feel it. Another woman even jumped back because they feel uncomfortable to the touch and had to pretend to enjoy it. Does this indicate an abnormality? How did it?
According to Dr Hilda Hutcherson, a clinical professor in obstetrics and gynecology for Diversity and Minority Affairs at the College of Physicians and Surgeons, Columbia University, New York City, this was not something rare. Many women who do not feel pleasure when their nipples are stimulated.
“Every woman is different and for some of them, the nipple is not that sensitive parts of their anatomy. Fortunately, the entire body is a great erotic zone. Your job to find the most sensitive areas on your body,” Hutcherson said.
Author of Pleasure: A Woman’s Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, Need and deserve it also says, when your toes curled when caressed, pinched, or a massage, it was a sign that’s where your sensitive areas.
Another possibility raised by her, a ghost writer based in New York City. Some men and women have nipples that are too sensitive because the concentration of nerve endings. When women get too much sensation in that area, this will only make him unable to enjoy the touch.
According to him, the main problem of it not on the physical, but the lack of communication. If you continue to pretend he was enjoying the touch of the breast, then this will make it no longer trying to stimulate your real hotspot. Tell it where your body parts to be touched, or guide her hand towards the zone.
If oversensitivitas is the root problem, there are other ways to overcome them. For example, ask your husband at your own while you stimulate your nipples. “Couples can put his hand on the back of your hand, follow your movements. Even if you are not touched directly, the couple still will touch you,” he advised.
This method is advantageous because you can feel the incredible intimacy. You can feel the patience of her husband, understanding your condition, ability to listen to your desires, and desire to make you happy.
Nipples are less sensitive can also be a symptom of a medical problem. If the sensitivity is not always there, then you need to consult a doctor. Who knows you will be asked to do a mammogram to find breast abnormalities.
Filed under Healthy Sex by Willy4987 on February 13, 2010 at 3:31 pm no comments 
Orgasm
You know why the action is hot in bed with your partner can cause the sensation of pleasure. However, do you know why sex is healthy?
The experts say, when making love, our bodies produce hormones and biological changes that can reduce pain, reduce the risk of cancer, boost immunity, and delay the symptoms of menopause.
1. Relieve pain
Stimulation in the area of the clitoris and parts of the vagina triggers the release of endofin, corticosteroids, and various other natural Painkiller. As a result, pain in the head disappeared, as well as muscle pain. Interestingly, according to experts, these benefits can last up to two days later.
2. Reducing the risk of breast cancer
Two of these compounds, oxytocin and DHEA, are believed to reduce the risk of breast cancer. A study in Greece showed that women who have sex more than once a month the risk for breast cancer is lower than the sex lives of women who smoke.
3. Makes the heart more active
The cardiologist (heart) classify sex as a useful gentle exercise to strengthen the heart, such as brisk walking exercise. Well, like many other sports, the more active you are, the greater the benefits to be picked. Similarly, sexual activity, types of positions do also affect your cardiovascular.
4. Protects prostate
In 2003, a study of middle aged Australian men found that those who ejaculated at least four times a week, the risk for prostate cancer are much lower than men who rarely ejaculate. “The dry pipe, the more easy going blockage,” said Irwin Goldstein, MD, Chairman of Sexual Medicine of Alvarado Hospital.
5. Reduce stress
2005 study found, men and women who have sex for two weeks before a stressful day have presentation skills and public speaking better. This happens because their blood pressure remained stable despite facing stressful situations.
6. Improving immune system
Not just apple, sex also makes us less doctor visits. Studies show that sex one to two times a week can improve our immune system up to 30 percent.
Research in Germany shows, arousal and orgasm in men increase the number of white blood cells fighting the pathogen. This effect is equivalent to the repellent activity of stress, such as sports or listening to music that can increase the number of infection-fighting proteins.
7. Healthy organs “down there”
The experts from New Jersey to find, pre-menopausal women who are sexually active or have sex more than 10 times a year, much less susceptible to interference in the vagina.
“When we’re excited, blood flow to the vaginal area a smooth one. Circulation of blood carries nutrients and oxygen that is needed,” says Sandra Leiblum, PhD.